Evelyn Lozada's Painful Interview About Chad Ochocinco Johnson Cheating And Beating

September 18. 2012

Evelyn Lozada and Iyanla Vanzant

Iyanla Vanzant's interview with "Basketball Wives" reality show star Evelyn Lozada about the destruction of her marriage to Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson was visibly painful for her. Vanzant did her best to extract the root of the problems in Lozada's environment on the show "Fix My Life." Viewers learned that their was a previous domestic violence incident regarding the couple, instigated and undertaken by Johnson. He was wrong to hit her. Violence has no place in a relationship.

Lozada said she had a hunch he was cheating but she married him anyway, hoping he would change. He didn't. So many women have married famous men, who simply continued with their disloyalty, bringing their cheating ways to the marriage. As the Judiciary Report stated in the past, famous men have too many options and many of them choose to be unfaithful.

Evelyn Lozada

The irony of it all is many of the women they cheat with don't care about them and are only there for the fame and money. Other women can be the worst in that way - relentlessly pursuing married men and destroying marriages. They know better but don't care. Let's not pretty it up. God doesn't approve of cheating and punishes it. Adultery always costs you something in life.

Johnson is like quite a few other famous men, who refuse to be faithful and at the end of the day they do themselves so much harm in life for this self-inflicted, ungodly behavior. Not only do they hurt their significant other, they also unintentionally wound their children, parents and grandparents, who witness the deterioration of their loved one's marriage and the scandal that ensues.

Chad "Ochcocinco" Johnson

To take on a famous man sometimes means unintentionally setting yourself up for profound heartbreak, sadness and misery. Some like the glitz and glamour of being able to brag online, in interviews and in public that so and so is one's boyfriend, fiancé or spouse, but at the end of the day, who wants to be saddled with an unfaithful man just because he is rich and famous. A man who is engaging in risky sex acts with women all over the place, then jumping into your bed. That's not good. Think twice before you marry such a man.

Some women truly fall in love with rich and famous men, but others are gold diggers in it for the money. They don't feel the pain as much when famous men cheat. I don't envy women that date certain famous men, as you hear and see things regarding how they cheat and who wants to go through something like that (sarcasm). No one is worth that.